Low self-esteem refers to having a negative perception of oneself and one's abilities, worth, and value. Individuals with low self-esteem often doubt their own capabilities and tend to see themselves in a more critical light compared to others. They may harbor feelings of inadequacy, self-doubt, and unworthiness, which can significantly impact various aspects of their lives, including relationships, work, and overall well-being

Low Self-Esteem

Some common characteristics and behaviors associated with low self-esteem include:

  1. Negative Self-Talk: Engaging in frequent self-criticism and negative inner dialogue, such as labeling oneself as "worthless" or "unlovable."

  2. Perfectionism: Setting unattainably high standards for oneself and feeling constant pressure to meet these standards, leading to feelings of failure and disappointment.

  3. Comparing Oneself to Others: Constantly comparing oneself unfavorably to others and feeling inferior as a result.

  4. Fear of Failure: Avoiding challenges or new experiences due to a fear of failure or rejection, which can hinder personal growth and development.

  5. Seeking External Validation: Relying heavily on external approval and validation from others to feel worthy or accepted.

  6. Difficulty Accepting Compliments: Feeling uncomfortable or unworthy of compliments and positive feedback from others.

  7. Avoiding Social Interaction: Withdrawing from social situations or relationships out of fear of judgment or rejection.

  8. Difficulty Asserting Boundaries: Struggling to assert personal boundaries and advocate for one's needs and desires in relationships.

  9. Depression and Anxiety: Low self-esteem can contribute to the development of mental health issues such as depression and anxiety, as individuals may constantly worry about their perceived inadequacies and shortcomings.

  10. Imposter Syndrome: Feeling like a fraud or believing that one's achievements are undeserved, despite evidence of competence or success.

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Low self-esteem can have significant negative effects on mental and emotional well-being, leading to feelings of unhappiness, dissatisfaction, and a diminished sense of overall quality of life. If you are experiencing any of these symptoms, we can work together to develop a plan to improve your quality of life.

With self-awareness, support, and therapeutic interventions, you can learn to challenge negative beliefs and develop a more positive and realistic self-image and begin to see yourself in a new light.

Virtual Therapy for Adults in PA and NJ

100 4th Street #6

Honesdale PA 18431

Phone: (570) 729-5795

afuccilcsw@gmail.com

Link to Telehealth will be provided via email and is also available by logging into the client account at the time of the appointment.

Professional Affiliations

  • National Association of Social Worker

  • National Association of the Dually Diagnosed

  • American Board of Clinical Social Work

  • Pennsylvania Society for Clinical Social Work